Susans.org is a fucking terriable forum

Ok, I’d like to start by saying if you’re a younger trans person looking for his or her way. Do not use this site. I just got done having an argument with their mod staff. Who are literally the most bias people I’ve ever encountered ?

Earlier I wrote this post. (Read it if you want https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php?reportsent;topic=215007.msg1904309#msg1904309) (I’m Kirahrose001 and An0npr0xi01) which was a list of things I didn’t like about being a Transexual? The thing that they focused on was that I personally believe the trans-community and gay community have different goals and priorities . Which is cool but because of that their community views might not always have our best interest all the time and maybe we should just do our own thing instead of being an acronym.But should still stand up for one another as humans. I don’t like that were fused together. But if you don’t agree with me that’s fine.IDC and please don’t focus that issue I’ll probably post about that another time. My problem is rather than actually reading my post. They locked it for 2 days. They didn’t give a reason at all.
The best I got was when I asked the third time. She responded.
“Hi, your reports have been received. As stated, the thread is under review. You should be hearing from a moderator or the Forum Administrator about it once a decision has been made.

Hugs,

DEVLYN MARIE

Which basically means she either didn’t read my post or locked it before she even had any idea why? I’m guessing it was flagged.
The second day I got angry. Because even though you might not agree I spent more time then I’d like to admit texting that entire series of post on a cell phone.

So I wrote back after the second day.

“Figures you guys would lock this for 2 days not give a real reason other than you felt like it. Now it’s not even going to get attention since its an older post. I hope I can find an outlet to meet people but this is ridiculous and if you can do me the favor of deleting my accounts that would be great.”
The next day she actually did respond.
“Topic unlocked, one post removed.
In posting I do not want discriminatory comments made about the gender diverse community. All members of the community are equal and are represented by this site. Suggesting that some groups are less than others is discriminatory and is not supported on this site.” Cindy

I went out of my way multiple times to explain this isn’t a crack at gay people. We just have different plans and the main thing that really holds us together is who beat us up. You don’t even have to agree. But my major problem is rather than coming to me and telling me in the post maybe I’m wrong they used their authority because they couldn’t find a point. Considering they wrote a very generic response with no actual details of the event I doubt she read more than a couple of sentences.
Eventually, I gave up and said.

“That’s not at all what I said. I said these two different groups with two different goals that might not need to be together in an acronym in more or fewer words. But still, should stand by one another as human beings. I didn’t say anything about one group being any more important than the other and went out of my way to reinforce that (Yes an0npr0xi is my duplicate account that is synced to my phone but that should be obvious). However, if you really need to phase one of my posts out because you didn’t bother to read it that’s alright leave it locked. I don’t feel comfortable posting here if locking post is what solves debates and rather than well structured different opinions .Especially if know I didn’t intend or insult anyone. I feel that I’m owed an apology otherwise have a nice day.”

Later I learned that I’m not the only experience like that . I found an older post on Reddit with loads of people having similar issues with the mod community over in my opinion much more important topics.

Consider this warning for anyone looking for an outlet they are basis af.

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